Category: Read Monologues

  • How I Contracted HPV and What I Did About It

    How I Contracted HPV and What I Did About It

    This post is written by Tashia Amenerio, founder of the non-profit HPV Awakening.  She writes from her personal experience why she is pushing for HPV be reportable- meaning sexual partners must legally inform each other of their status- and why she urges you to sign the petition to get the FDA to approve HPV testing…

  • Condoms: Can’t live with ’em; Can’t live without ’em

    Condoms: Can’t live with ’em; Can’t live without ’em

    My relationship with condoms is conflicted. I don’t completely trust any condoms. And yet, I have to use them because they are my only option as a heterosexual male. First I’ll explain why I use condoms. The I’ll explain why my dislike for them always lingers: Can’t live with ’em; can’t live without them. I…

  • Can You Just Notice Me Please?

    Can You Just Notice Me Please?

    This monologue was submitted anonymously via Tell Your Story page. S-so do you ever want to…like grab someone very very gently by the shoulders, look deep into their eyes and then shake them semi-violently whilst screaming “LOVE MEEE.” No? Just me? Right… So there’s this guy. Kevin. He’s in my sixth period study hall, but…

  • Limp On Condoms

    Limp On Condoms

    A one night stand of fun, no-strings-attached sex was exactly what I needed. Undesired, however, was a man who went limp at the sight of condoms. We quickly hooked up. Hot, passionate kissing that evolved into a scene of heavy lust. Before we gravitated to the bedroom I asked him if he had condoms on…

  • 3 People and An HIV Positive Baby?

    3 People and An HIV Positive Baby?

    The problem is so common there is a term for it. Andrew shares his personal struggle trying to deter the “bug chasers” from his “gift” (NSFW). I have been around the block quite a lot and I thought I had seen and read everything and that nothing would shock me…but I was wrong! A few…

  • I Always Thought I’d Be Skinny.

    I Always Thought I’d Be Skinny.

    Like a lot of people, I always used to think someone with HIV or AIDS was going to be super skinny, so when I was diagnosed in 2005 I thought, “Yes, never fat again“. Looking back with what  I now know (Including my own waist line) I realise that this is not case. Yes, some people…

  • Ewwww, you have what?

    Ewwww, you have what?

    For Andrew, the end of STI and disease stigma beings at the disclosure process. He finds that being open, matter-of-fact and disclosing his HIV status without shame is the most effective method- no beating around the bush. What is your approach to receiving or giving an STI disclosure?   It was like any other day where you…

  • The Birth of Momdoms (includes actual birth)

    The Birth of Momdoms (includes actual birth)

    As a child, did an adult ever “catch” you looking through books of a sexual nature, like human biology texts or porn? Did the adult respond in shock, embarrassment, anger? For the brothers of Momdoms, their mother’s reaction was the spark that set off their company’s mission today. Here’s Wayne Simpkins telling that story: Penis.…

  • Naked For Safe Sex

    Naked For Safe Sex

    Andrew shows that three floors, a cold night and a neighbor’s cat are no obstacle against safer sex. How far would you go to get a condom?  As a lot of these types of stories go, it was after a very heavy night of dancing and drinking at Club Kali in London. I hooked up with…

  • How an allergy improved my sexual safety

    How an allergy improved my sexual safety

    Something was wrong. I was a little itchy and, more concerning, I was sore. You know, down there. I was worried. I’m a safe-sexer, but I had one rather recent indiscretion in my past. As far as those things go, it was a fairly safe indiscretion, but it was one nonetheless. What happened was this:…