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  • 3 Tips for Decoding Condom Size

    3 Tips for Decoding Condom Size

    A guide to understanding how to convert penis size for best condom width.

    Knowing condom size is one thing.  Knowing what size best fits is another. Condom shopping is a daunting task no thanks to marketing gimmicks. Even looking past the clutter of overused adjectives like “thinnest” and “most sensitive”, you still need to decode the actual size dimensions (if they are labeled at all!).

    Companies typically report the condom width only.  This is determined by laying the condom flat, so it does not match penis circumference.  So how are you sure that this one-dimensional measure will match your three-dimensional penis?

    It’s not like you can take a box of condoms to the changing room and try one on before you buy.
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    One blogger has taken on this condom conundrum by collecting numerous studies. “Alex”, the creator of Condom Sizes & Facts, is not an expert, but he has organized findings from various scientific surveys to allow readers come to their own conclusions about condom sizing. We got the opportunity to ask Alex about some of his personal conclusions.

    He breaks down three things you need the know about average penis size surveys before you start believing that you are abnormal, and he gives pointers to keep in mind when condom shopping.  Also, he fine tunes the magic number 2.25 from our formula:

    Penis girth / 2.25 = approx condom width

    We begin with republishing this data from his blog. The table matches penis to condom size. From this data, you may understand why an “average” size man may fit a magnum condom. These numbers are approximate guides from the research on Alex’s blog. Fitting may vary depending on condom elasticity and personal preference. Affiliate links within. 

    Penis Girth to Condom Width Chart

    Penis GirthCondom WidthPenis GirthCondom Widthe.g. Major Brand Condoms
    InchesMilimeters
    3.70 – 4.131.8594 – 10547
    4.14 – 4.331.85 – 1.97106 – 11047 – 49LifeStyles Snugger Fit, Caution Wear Iron Grip, Durex Enhanced Pleasure
    4.34 – 4.531.93 – 1.97111 – 11549 – 51Glyde Slim Fit, LifeStyles 3SUM, RFSU Mamba, Beyond Seven
    4.54 – 4.721.97 – 2.09115 – 12050 – 53LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive, Kimono MicroThin, Beyond Seven Studded
    4.73 – 4.922.05 – 2.17121 – 12552 – 55LifeStyles SKYN, Trojan BareSkin, Durex Love
    4.93 – 5.122.13 – 2.24126 – 13054 – 57Trojan Magnum, LifeStyles KYNG, LifeStyles SKYN Large, RFSU Grande
    5.13 – 5.312.20 – 2.36130 – 13557 – 60Glyde Maxi, ONE The Legend, Magnum XL
    5.52 – 5.912.36 – 2.52141 – 15060 – 64
    > 5.912.72>15069Trojan Naturalamb, FC2 internal condom

    View the original table which also explains the research behind these figures. To compare current condom sizes, use the full condom size chart or check your girth with our condom size calculator.

    Next step after the 2.25 formula: put your girth into the condom size calculator, then compare the closest range in the condom sizing guide. If your result is around a standard width, check the Durex condom size guide; if material or latex-free feel matters, compare the SKYN and LifeStyles condom size chart; and if you need more room, use the Trojan and Magnum size chart.

    Condom Monologues: First of all, how would you like to be credited?

    Alex from Condom Sizes and Facts: That’s a perfect first question. I don’t want to be credited because I am not an expert. Data I have collected are public and I did not produce them. I barely used them to make my opinion and decided to share it.

    CM: In your investigation into penis size, you explain that very few studies sponsored by condom companies actually produce sound scientific data. In fact, average penis size may be smaller and more varied than companies have previously reported. Please cite which penis size survey(s) you trust the most and why?

    CSF: First I would like to be perfectly clear: penis size is not interesting “per se”, especially length, which is what most people mean when talking about size. You have 3 kinds of studies:

    1) self-reported measurements: men report their penile dimensions. The averages are typically 15.6–16.6 cm for length and 12.2–13.6 cm for girth.

    Examples: Kinsey study, Internet survey by Richard Edwards, Durex survey.
    These studies are of poor interest and rather have readers feel inadequate due to the somewhat high over-estimates.

    2) pharmacological measurements: measurements are conducted by researchers , either directly or by men after a proper training. The averages are typically 12.9–14.5 cm for length and 11.9–12.3 cm for girth.

    They are of great value, but one needs to get the whole article to judge the quality: some have been performed on men with erectile dysfunctions, some use a very small sample, where representation is heavily questioned, methods of measurements often vary (base, mid-points, under the glans, “bone pressed” or not), or the measurement itself is different (width, circumference, and mode of erection).

    The Wessells and the Schneider studies are very good examples.

    3) The last kind is a hybrid between a) and b). These are the self-reported studies where:
    the sample has been carefully selected (or big enough to cancel the possible bias),
    a harmonized measurement method is clearly explained to ensure standard practices and avoid inconsistencies, men are motivated to measure their penis carefully and to report accurate data.

    The averages are typically 13–14.2cm for length and 12–12.2 cm for girth.

    The Herbernick and TheyFit studies are good examples. Their values reside in the huge samples from which they get the data.

    There is no survey I trust the most. Rather, it is the consistency through the various serious surveys which should be trusted.

    CM: In order to determine proper condom width, would you recommend dividing penis circumference by 2.25? How do you arrive at this approximation? And what do people need to consider about elasticity?

    CSF: Actually, researchers (Gerofi for example) have come to the conclusion that a condom should be stretched about 10 to 20%. This, translated in ratio between penis circumference and condom width gives a 2.2 (10%) to 2.4 (20%) division factor.

    2.25 represent a 12.5% condom stretch. And to be perfectly honest, it is only my personal taste, with my preferred condom brand. I really don’t like condoms fitting too snugly, but I do want a minimum grip to ensure safety.

    The above values are calculated from an average elasticity, one has to know that it is the consequence of 1) condom thickness and 2) latex recipe.

    You may not know these parameters when buying a condom. But be sure they do vary a lot between brands and condom types because companies use different ingredients. For example: TheyFit recommends a 2.37 dividing factor for its condoms.

    The most important thing to understand is that you can use these figures as a guidance, but be sure to do your own research and trials. Real experience should always be the deciding factor.

    CM: What is the most surprising thing you’ve come across in your penis-condom size research?

    CSF: Two things: Condom latex recipes change drastically and thus vary condom elasticity.

    Second, like many men, I discovered late that the fitting problems I was experiencing were not “normal” (not just something I had to put up with) nor a consequence of an inadequate technique. I was truly surprised the first time I changed my condom size and discovered what a good fit could mean: no more anxiety, all gone in one breath!

    Have comments? Questions? Still not sure what condoms will fit? Leave a note below or message us on FB or Twitter.

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  • We Now Have a Condom Calculator!

    We Now Have a Condom Calculator!

    That’s right. The overcrowded matrix of condom dimesions has been hacked and neatly reorganized by our techy team. Located in the top menu of our Home page under “Condom “Sizes”. This nifty tool allows you to custom search size, material, flavors, brands, etc., across 100 hundred condoms all in one place.  It’s an upgrade from our archaic condom size charts in which you need to scrool lists and lists of products. The calculator does the searching for you and helps you pinpoint your preferences. Give it and try and let us know what you think! Updates and improvements are never ending. Go to the Condom Size Calculator.  CMRuler-803px-withtext

     

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  • 12 Reasons to Love Female Condoms

    12 Reasons to Love Female Condoms

    Today is the day to celebrate possibly one of the most important inventions since humans started having sex!

    Global Female Condom Day (#GFCD) is taking place in over 50 countries across the world to raise awareness and tackle misconceptions about this safer sex option. This is crucial because it is the only protection of its kind that puts power in the hands of the receptive partner and prevents against both STIs and pregnancy.

    Learn how to participate in this day of action by going to http://www.nationalfccoalition.org/gfcd
    Use this as your facebook cover page for the day. Learn more about how to participate by going to www.nationalfccoalition.org/gfcd

    In North America, most cities will celebrate through community outreach and other educational activities. The makers of FC2 (the Female Health Company) have launched a text messaging program to help locate female condoms in the local area. People can text FC2condom to 877877 to find the nearest location to buy female condoms.

    Some cities are also launching film screenings of the winners of the international “Female Condoms Are…” Festival. You can view these short films on PATH’s YouTube channel. Or you can vote for a fan favorite here.

    Why is there #GFCD?

    Despite being around for two decades, the female condom (aka “internal condom”) continues to live in the margins. It is rarely taught about in public school sex education and is not as readily available at local grocery stores like its male counterpart. Access and demand are two major challenges. In our email interview with Sarah Gaudreau, Project Director of the Washington AIDS Partnership’s Female Condom Initiative, she explains that the higher cost of the female condom won’t go down until there is a greater demand or a competitor. In this regard, there may be a competitor very soon if the FDA approves the Origami condom (undergoing human trials now).

    As for access, many health organizations and grassroot activists are pressuring local pharmacies, community clinics and health departments to carry female condoms. This action is desperately needed because currently only select Walgreens have committed to stocking female condoms nationwide, but even then not all stores carry them.

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    You can buy FC2 in packs of 3 online and from select Walgreens stores. Our personal review of FC2 coming soon!

    Still, making condoms more accessible isn’t enough. In order to confront fears and apprehensions that accompany any new technology, there has to be information sharing and more conversations surrounding female condoms. Increasing demand means talking with potential partners and friends about female condoms- how and when they get used, and how to use them in ways that enhance sexual experience. This is why distribution initiatives like the Washington AIDS Partnership in collaboration with the Health Department, and generously funded by the MAC AIDS Fund, aimed to get the conversation going by handing out condoms in social places like barber shops, beauty salons, clothing stores and liquor stores. Learn more about the initiative from this NPR interview.

    To commemorate this day of awareness, we wanted to help tackle these fears and misconceptions by highlighting all of the amazing and important advantages that the female condom offers. We’ve come up with 12. Feel free to add more in the comment section below.

    1) It can be inserted hours before sex! No erection needed.

    The design on an internal condom opens the door to a whole new world of safe sex. No interruptive “wait, let’s find a condom” moment. No fumbling to stretch one over the penis in an attempt at foreplay. And, perhaps most importantly, the receptive partner can be preemptive and put one on without negotiating protection in the first place.

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    2) Negotiation power is altered.

    The receptive partner can take control of their safety independently.

    A number of health organizations in North America and abroad have been working to increase access to female condoms for sex workers and communities with high HIV infection rates, where use of traditional roll-on condom is low despite abundent availablilty.

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    3) Increases female sexual pleasure.

    Contrary to many first impressions, this device can actually enable sexual pleasure rather than dull it. In our interview, Sarah Gaudreau highlights a yet unpublished study from Washington D.C. that found women were more likely to orgasm with a female condom than with a male condom. Some women even reported multiple orgasms.” transfer body heat immediately. Also, the outer ring is this soft rolled material that fits over the outer lips and rubs the clitoris, which can function as an added

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    4) Helps you know your body better.

    Some women have compared their first experience with the female condom to learning how to use a tampon. Greater awareness of one’s body is intrinsic to personal agency. The female condom can help women be in control and responsible for their pregnancy and STI prevention.

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    5) May be used for anal sex (but it is not FDA approved for this use).

    No condom (male or female) currently available on the market has actually been tested for protective anal sex (in fact, only until this year has the first FDA testing for protective anal sex ever taken place). Despite the fact that the Female Health Company does not advocate using FC2 for anal sex because it is not FDA approved for such use, there are still men, women and transgender folks who do use it for these needs.

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    6) May be used for oral sex.

    Protective cunnilingus is another benefit that the female condom offers but of which it has not been officially tested for. Gaudreau explained in our interview that some prefer using the FC2 for oral sex. “The outer ring helps keep the female condom in place and this allows hands-free operation. With a dental dam, you have to hold it in place.” Furthermore the FC2 has no flavor or lingering latex after taste, so some prefer it to male condoms or dental dams.

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    7) One size fits all.

    The female condom forms to the internal walls of the body, not the penis. This means that the size of the condom (and penis) is irrelevant, so that knocks off a list of popular excuses not to wear a roll-on condom. As Gaudreau explains, female condoms can be a better alternative for some men.

    “The size of a man’s penis has no impact on the FC2 [female condom]. The FC2 is larger because as it warms to body temperature, it lines the vaginal walls which in turn provides a very natural feeling. We hear from many men that it feels like they are not using any protection at all which they like. I guess if a man can’t find a male condom that fits, the FC2 is a great option as it fits the woman’s body and not the man’s.”

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    8) Effective dual protection against pregnancy and STI transmission.

    This is an obvious advantage, but we had to emphasize just how effective condoms are at prevention. With consistent and correct use, the female condom is 95% effective at preventing pregnancy and transmission of many STIs. This makes it one of the top most effective methods of birth control and STI protection.

    Furthermore, because the outer ring covers some of the labia and perineal region it can be more effective than male condoms at preventing skin to skin transmission of STIs such as genital warts, HPV and herpes.

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    9) It’s non-hormonal with no side effects.

    A recent article in NYMag discusses a curious decrease in hormonal birth control preferences among the Millennial generation. More and more young women are ditching the Pill and favor methods that don’t effect periods, cause weight gain or depression.

    The female condom comes with no hormonal side effects. Also, it doesn’t require an appointment with a clinic or a prescription. You can easily buy female condoms online. In the United States, select Walgreens supplying FC2. They are also available at local HIV/AIDS organizations and family planning clinics, like Planned Parenthood. If your local pharamacy or clinic doesn’t carry them, ask them to!  Here are sometalking points (pdf) to help you initiate the conversation.

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    10) It’s hypo-allergenic.

    The FC2, the only internal condom currently available in North America, is made of nitrile polymer, a material similar to latex in softness and strength, but better because it does not have that funky latex scent or latex allergens. Furthermore, it transfers body heat more efficiently which heightens sensitivity and feels more natural.

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    11) Water-based, oil-based & silicon. FC2 is compatible with all lubes!

    Lubricant is an important companion and it’s even better when you have variety of choice. Unlike latex condoms, the FC2 is compatible with all your favorite lubes including oil-based ones.

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    12) It’s another option.

    The more choices available to you the easier it is to pick and choose what is the best safer sex method for yourself in different circumstances throughout your life. Gaudreau states,

    “It’s important to note that people (women and men) want more choices. Female condoms are not going to replace male condoms and that’s okay. But having more options is good. Studies have shown that having both male and female condoms as an option increases protected sex and that’s always great!”

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    Everything You Need to Know

    To learn more about female condoms, including how to use them and where to buy them go to the National FC Coalition. Click for information about Global Female Condom Day and activities near you, as well as many simple and innovative ideas for how you may participate in #GFCD. Send out a tweet, vote for an awareness video, contact your local pharmacy about supplying female condoms.

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  • SKYN Condom Size Chart: Original, Elite, Large & LifeStyles

    SKYN Condom Size Chart: Original, Elite, Large & LifeStyles

    LifeStyles and SKYN Condom Size Chart

    Quick answer: LifeStyles and SKYN condoms cover snug, standard, and large fits. SKYN Original and SKYN Elite are common standard non-latex choices, while SKYN Elite Large is the usual roomier SKYN option. LifeStyles Snugger Fit is the narrower pick when regular condoms slip or bunch.

    This page answers the exact searches people use — LifeStyles size, LifeStyle condom size chart, SKYN sizing chart, and SKYN condom size chart — with width-first recommendations.

    SKYN sizing chart: what size is SKYN?

    Most SKYN condoms are standard-fit non-latex condoms around 53 mm nominal width. SKYN Elite Large is wider and better for people who find standard SKYN condoms too tight. If standard condoms slip, try a snugger LifeStyles option instead of sizing up.

    LifeStyles size FAQ

    Are SKYN condoms LifeStyles condoms?

    SKYN is part of the LifeStyles family, but shoppers usually search for SKYN separately because it is the main non-latex line.

    Which SKYN condom is largest?

    SKYN Elite Large is the key larger SKYN option to compare first. For a broader large-condom comparison, use the condom size calculator.

    Which LifeStyles condom is snug?

    LifeStyles Snugger Fit is the main snug option. It is useful when regular condoms feel loose, bunch up, or slide during sex.

    If you are shopping LifeStyles or SKYN condoms, the most important question is not which box looks best. It is which one actually fits your body and the kind of sex you want to have.

    This refreshed LifeStyles and SKYN size chart focuses on the products people are most likely to actually buy now, with the dimensions, material, feel, and use case that matter most. Every product link below goes to Condomania. If you order there, try coupon code CONDOMMONOLOGUES for 10% off where applicable.

    Before you buy, use the Condom Size Calculator and compare widths in the full Condom Size Chart. If you specifically want latex-free options, also see our guide to the best non-latex condoms by size and fit.

    Choosing SKYN by material? Use the SKYN condom sizes guide for the short width-by-model answer, then compare every SKYN and LifeStyles width in this full chart. For comfort notes beyond measurements, read the SKYN condom guide; for broader latex-free choices, compare the best latex-free condoms before narrowing by size.

    LifeStyles and SKYN size chart quick reference

    Fast read: if your search is for a LifeStyles condom size chart, LifeStyle condom size chart, SKYN sizing chart, or SKYN condom size chart, start with nominal width. LifeStyles Snugger Fit is the narrower 49 mm option, most SKYN regular options sit around 53 mm, and SKYN Elite Large or LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Titan are the roomier 56 mm options.

    Option Nominal width Material Best fit use
    LifeStyles Snugger Fit 49 mm Latex Snug fit when regular condoms slip or bunch
    SKYN Original 53 mm Non-latex Standard latex-free starting point
    SKYN Elite 53 mm Non-latex Standard fit with a thinner-feel SKYN option
    LifeStyles Ultra Thin 53 mm Latex Standard latex fit with more sensitivity
    SKYN Elite Large 56 mm Non-latex Roomier latex-free fit
    LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Titan 56 mm Latex Larger thin-feel LifeStyles fit

    If you already measured girth, confirm the match with the condom size calculator. If these SKYN or LifeStyles widths do not look right, compare broader options in the full condom size chart and the condom sizing guide.

    Quick answer: which LifeStyles or SKYN condom should you start with?

    Quick picks

    LifeStyles and SKYN starter picks

    For most shoppers, the fastest useful comparison is snug, standard non-latex, large non-latex, and standard thin latex.

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    LifeStyles and SKYN size chart

    Condom Width Length Material Best for
    LifeStyles Snugger Fit 49 mm 7.0 in / 178 mm Latex Smaller girth, secure snug fit
    SKYN Original 53 mm 7.5 in / 190 mm Non-latex Standard fit, everyday use
    SKYN Elite 53 mm 7.88 in / 200 mm Non-latex Standard fit, thinner feel
    SKYN Elite Extra Lubricated 53 mm 7.88 in / 200 mm Non-latex Standard fit with more glide
    SKYN Supreme Ultra-Thin 53 mm 7.09 in / 180 mm Non-latex Lowest barrier feel in standard fit
    SKYN Extra Studded 53 mm 7.88 in / 200 mm Non-latex Standard fit with extra texture
    SKYN Cocktail Club 53 mm 8.0 in / 203 mm Non-latex Standard fit, flavored oral-friendly option
    LifeStyles Ultra Thin 53 mm 7.6 in / 193 mm Latex Standard fit latex, more sensitivity
    LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive 53 mm 7.75 in / 197 mm Latex Standard fit latex with thin feel
    LifeStyles Rough Rider Studded 52 mm 8.0 in / 203 mm Latex Standard fit with ribbed and studded texture
    LifeStyles Lubricated 54 mm 7.32 in / 186 mm Latex Standard comfort-fit everyday latex option
    LifeStyles Large 56 mm 8.0 in / 203 mm Latex Large fit without moving to XL territory
    LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Titan 56 mm 8.25 in / 210 mm Latex Large fit with thinner feel
    SKYN Elite Large 56 mm 8.65 in / 220 mm Non-latex Large latex-free fit for more girth and length

    How to choose the right LifeStyles or SKYN fit

    A good shortcut is to match the condom’s nominal width to the fit range you usually like:

    • 49 mm: snug fit, usually better if standard condoms feel loose or bunchy.
    • 52 to 54 mm: standard fit, where most people land.
    • 56 mm: a noticeable step up for people who feel squeezed in standard condoms.

    If you do not know your ideal width yet, do not guess. Use the calculator first, then double-check options in the full size chart.

    Best SKYN condoms by fit and use case

    Best for most people: SKYN Original

    SKYN Original is still the best place to start if you want a latex-free condom that just works for standard sizing. At 53 mm, it fits the same broad range as many mainstream regular condoms, but the non-latex material feels softer than many people expect.

    Best for sensitivity: SKYN Elite

    SKYN Elite keeps the same 53 mm fit but trims down the barrier feel. If SKYN Original already fits you well and you want more sensation, this is the most logical upgrade.

    Best for larger latex-free fit: SKYN Elite Large

    SKYN Elite Large is one of the strongest options on the market for people who want more room without jumping straight to oversized novelty condoms. It is 56 mm wide and 220 mm long, so it is especially useful if standard non-latex condoms feel tight or too short.

    Best for extra lubrication: SKYN Elite Extra Lubricated

    SKYN Elite Extra Lubricated makes sense if you already like Elite but want less drag during longer sessions or more comfort during vaginal or anal sex. It is the same basic fit, just wetter out of the wrapper.

    Best textured SKYN option: SKYN Extra Studded

    SKYN Extra Studded is a useful pick if you like the softer SKYN material but want more texture than the standard line offers.

    Best LifeStyles latex condoms by fit and use case

    Best snug fit: LifeStyles Snugger Fit

    LifeStyles Snugger Fit is the clear starting point if regular condoms slide, bunch, or feel insecure. At 49 mm, it is meaningfully narrower than the 53 mm mainstream standard.

    Best standard latex option: LifeStyles Ultra Thin

    LifeStyles Ultra Thin is the best standard latex pick here if you want a classic fit with less material between you and your partner. It is a strong comparison point against SKYN Elite if you are not specifically avoiding latex.

    Best large latex option: LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Titan

    LifeStyles Ultra Sensitive Titan is the better pick when standard 53 mm condoms feel tight but you still care about thinner feel and easy availability in the LifeStyles line.

    SKYN vs LifeStyles latex, which line is better?

    If you need latex-free, SKYN is the obvious answer and the stronger product family overall. If you are fine with latex and want a lower-cost everyday option, the regular LifeStyles line still gives you useful choices in snug, standard, textured, and large fits.

    For most shoppers, the real decision tree is simple:

    Bottom line

    The old problem with LifeStyles and SKYN shopping is that the lineup looks bigger than it really is. Once you sort by width and material, the choice gets much easier. Most people should start with SKYN Original or SKYN Elite at 53 mm, size up to SKYN Elite Large or Titan at 56 mm if standard fits feel tight, and move down to LifeStyles Snugger Fit if regular condoms feel too loose.

    If you are still unsure, use the Condom Size Calculator, compare the wider market in the master size chart, and browse more latex-free picks in our non-latex fit guide.

    All product links above go to Condomania. Coupon code CONDOMMONOLOGUES may save you 10% off where applicable.

    This site contains affiliate links. When you purchase products through these links, we may earn a commission at no additional cost to you.

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  • Condom Sizing Guide: Measure Girth & Nominal Width

    Condom Sizing Guide: Measure Girth & Nominal Width

    Condom sizing starts with girth, not just length. A condom should roll on easily, stay in place, and feel secure without squeezing hard enough to hurt, numb sensation, or leave a deep ring.

    If you came here looking for a condom size calculator, use the Condom Size Calculator first. It turns girth into a target nominal width and suggests close product matches from the live chart. You can also compare every option in the Condom Size Chart.

    Once you have a width range: sanity-check it against the closest brand family before buying. Use the Durex condom size guide for common latex and Durex latex-free fits, the SKYN and LifeStyles condom size chart for non-latex or standard-width options, or the Trojan and Magnum size chart for roomier latex choices.

    Quick picks

    Condom sizing starter picks

    If you already know your girth range, start with the closest fit path below, then confirm against the calculator and full chart before buying.

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    How to measure for condom sizing

    Use a soft measuring tape, or wrap a string around the shaft and measure the string against a ruler.

    1. Measure while erect.
    2. Measure girth around the middle of the shaft. If the head is much wider, measure there too.
    3. Measure length from the base to the tip.
    4. Use girth to choose width first, then use length to avoid condoms that are obviously too short or too long.

    Length matters, but girth usually decides whether a condom feels too tight, too loose, or just right.

    Condom size guidelines by girth

    A rough shortcut is to divide erect girth by about 2.25 to estimate a comfortable flat condom width in inches, then convert to millimeters. The calculator does this work for you.

    • Under 4.8 inches girth: look at snugger condoms such as Atlas True Fit Snugger.
    • Around 4.8 to 5.1 inches girth: standard-width options often work well; SKYN Elite is a strong non-latex starting point.
    • Around 5.2 inches girth and up: consider roomier options such as Trojan Magnum Raw.
    • Much thicker than standard: compare larger-width options such as Caliber XL against the full chart.

    What a correctly sized condom should feel like

    A good fit should feel secure but not punishing. It should not slide around, bunch badly, cut off circulation, or feel so tight that sensation disappears. If a condom keeps slipping, move narrower. If it feels painfully tight or hard to roll down, move wider.

    If you are unsure, test two nearby widths instead of guessing from labels like regular, large, or XL. Brand labels are inconsistent; nominal width is the cleaner comparison.

    Next step

    Use the Condom Size Calculator with your girth measurement, then compare the results in the Condom Size Chart. If standard latex condoms bother you, also read the best non-latex condoms by size and fit guide.

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  • Kickstart Slut: A Documentary Film

    Kickstart Slut: A Documentary Film

    The grassroots-funded documentary film, Slut, all began with middle school diary entries shared on Tumblr.

    I had teachers not only laugh when I was called a “slut” or a “whore”, but also had teachers join in. I also had a teacher hit on me because of my “title.” The worst experience was when a kid would grope me every day in class, and my teacher would yell at me for yelling at him or smacking him. The teacher who hit on me has been since fired, but the rest are still teaching there. – Anonymous, The UnSlut Project (cross-posted with permission).

    As we’ve discussed elsewhere, intersections of sexual education and storytelling can be powerful. Story opens the imagination. It draws connections between people and deepens understanding of ourselves and each other. The UnSlut Project shows that story can unsilence the ill-effects that certain tropes and attitudes have on us all.

    The “slut” experience shared above is one of hundreds by girls and women submitted to the UnSlut Project. This collaborative space of story sharing and support (see their community advice page) all started by co-founder Emily Lindin posting on Tumblr her very personal diary entries of being sexually bullied as the middle school skank. The response has been enormous and now hundreds of girls and women have voiced their own experiences of sexual bullying that, in some cases, have led to isolation, depression, cutting, and suicide attempts. Read the stories for yourself.

     

    Image from their Kickstarter Campaign
    Image from their Kickstarter Campaign

    There are many entries like the one above that testify to the extent to which slut-shaming permeates our school systems and communities. It is not simply lack of sex education in public schools (although this is a very important aspect to consider in debates about what constitutes “comprehensive” sex ed). Teachers, counselors, parents, and peers are all implicated.

    It leads to a few important questions: Who in North America hasn’t been exposed to slut shame? How much does the “skanky” stereotype influence the way we censor and manage our own desires and sexuality? How are our schools (and sex education curricula) complacent and, in many cases, actively supporting sexist values and behaviors?

    These are questions that Slut: A Documentary Film will explore. Emily Lindin and Jessica Caimi want to convey to a wider public how normalized sexual bullying is in our schools, communities and media, and what we can all do to eradicate it. They’ve launched a Kickstarter campaign to fund the filmmaking. During the next 11 days (as of writing) people are having an ongoing discussion about the film production and what voices should be featured in Slut.

    Consider supporting this cause to raise public awareness. Maybe you have an experience with slut shaming to share, as well.

    http://www.unslutproject.com/
    http://www.unslutproject.com/
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  • Youth-Made Announcements The Public Must Watch

    Youth-Made Announcements The Public Must Watch

    The three videos presented here are like no other sexual health messages shared on prime time TV. They were made by HIV-positive youth from the Young Adult Program (YAP) at St. Luke’s and Roosevelt Hospitals’ Spencer Cox Center for Health. This video initiative, designed and facilitated by the consultancy group Connected Health Solutions Inc., has turned top-down approaches of traditional PSAs on its head.

    Just “wear a condom every time”

    For those of you who can’t remember, public service announcements (PSAs) from the late 80’s to ‘90s predominantly involved high profile personalities like Magic Johnson and Whoopie Goldberg telling you to “wear a condom every time”. Here’s young Whoopie (nostalgia!).


    Babies with Hiv and Aids 1990s by NoHivNoAids

    Some of these messages were groundbreaking for the time. Others were not so effective. In our interview with the founders of the HIV Disclosure Project, we discuss how early HIV awareness campaigns were based on fear, pushing condoms as the only option to avoid death. These messages were vague. They obscured real-life information about the different degrees of risks and how to manage those risks with options suited for the individual or relationship. You certainly didn’t see Growing Pains’ Kirk Cameron speaking about “fluid-bonded” couples, or how oral sex is risky for some STIs while less risky for others. Consequently, 30 years into the HIV pandemic, STI stigma and misconceptions about transmission are still perpetuated today.

    But there is hope. The Young Adult Program (YAP) at St. Luke’s and Roosevelt Hospitals’ Spencer Cox Center for Health in partnership with Connected Health Solutions, Inc. (CHS), have changed mainstream top-down approaches of PSAs. They’ve cultivated a safe and critically reflective space for youth to produce their own public health messages. Upon contacting the project for an interview, however, I learned that their collaboration has been forced to stop due to loss of funding and state budget cuts.

    #SpreadTheWordNotTheVirus

    Depressing as this is, some of the youth who made the videos below are in the process of organizing an Indiegogo campaign to help continue the program. And not without celebrity pizazz and support from DJ Caroline D’Amore (whose mother died from AIDS-related causes). Watch this space for updates: SpreadTheWordNotTheVirus. And follow CHS facebook page.

    YAP and CHS behind the scenes film production of "It's Not Just a Guy Issue" PSA.
    YAP and CHS behind the scenes film production of “It’s Not Just a Guy Issue”

    A New Era of PSAs

    CHS has been working with at-risk youth from YAP for a couple of years. What’s novel about their work is in the production process. They collectively produce online PSAs that address issues relevant to the participants. Kenny Shults, president of CHS, explained in an email that over a period of a few month, participants would run through a series of group exercises all geared towards thinking critically about a social issue (such as HIV stigma) and develop an effective script. “We then spend about a month working together to complete all of the pre-production activities such as casting, props, locations, etc. and fine tuning the script. Then everyone shows up to the shoot (1 day per PSA) to make a movie. It is an incredibly fun, interactive, educational, and inspiring process,” Kenny explains.

    What results is a number of original and thought-provoking messages. The PSAs presented here were made by HIV positive young adults from YAP. The first video conveys the message that people living with HIV can give birth to and raise healthy children, have a healthy family and lead fulfilling lives. Kenny highlights this video in particular, stating:

    …a number of the youth who made the “Happily Ever After” campaign are now taking their meds after making this piece. One young woman says: “Every time I take my pill in the morning I picture Emma’s face” (Emma is the name of the actress in that PSA). We couldn’t have asked for a better outcome.

    This is precisely the point. The significance of the workshops is not the glossy quality of the final product; rather, it is the process which matters most. Making a short film by and for the very population it represents, and finding a collective voice together cultivates a transformative power from within. Participants complete the PSA with a critical, self-reflective understanding of the issue and the social structures and institutions that influence such an issue. In effect, the participants’ attitudes have positively shifted.

    The second PSA, “One Condition”, tackles HIV stigma by asking the audience “What would you do?” in the situation of HIV disclosure. It’s an important PSA because not nearly enough people understand that HIV is a manageable disease. Advancements in treatment mean that risks of transmission have changed dramatically, and so too must people’s attitudes and fears.

    For more about the workshop process and theories that underpins their approach, read the company’s statement and Kenny Shult’s article at The Good Man Project.

    What do you think of these PSAs? Do you feel they successfully address a lack in public discourse about living with HIV? What messages would you like to see more of?

    An effective condom message

    I end with this last video about the importance of safer sex. Unlike the PSAs of the 1990s, this video addresses real obstacles (like embarrassment of buying condoms) and conveys real choices. It offers an alternative ending to another video about condom use and brings light to the forgotten option of female condoms. We follow a guy throughout the day as he prepares for a date, yet at each point that a condom presents itself he is too embarrassed or uncomfortable to pick one up. When the moment comes he is unprepared. Lucky for him, condom use isn’t just a guy’s responsibility.

    To view more videos campaigns made with CHS by teens, LGBTQ folk, high school bullies and more, check out the My Media Life playlist by CHS.

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  • Non-Latex Condom & Dam Size Chart

    Non-Latex Condom & Dam Size Chart

    banana measure tapeThe world of non-latex condoms is a mysterious one. There aren’t many options. In another post we confirm that there is no such thing as flavored non-latex barriers. Also, most manufacturers do not make “special” sizes for non-latex. By special, I mean anything smaller or larger than 2.1″/53mm base wide and 7.5″/190mm long. Some brands offer sizing information on their packaging, such as Lifestyles’ SKYN and Glyde. But most remain vague.

    Each of our size guides offers non-latex options (see our main condom chart or try our condom size calculator for a quicker search). We have consolidated that information into this post to make dimensions easier to find.  This chart is organized by “Regular” and “Large”. There is no “small” or “snug” size non-latex.  Scroll to the bottom for female condoms (sometimes called “internal condoms”) and sex dams.

    Read more about the differences between polyisoprene and polyurethane.

    Current picks

    Current non-latex condom picks

    For a current buying path, start with the condoms below. The internal-condom and dam rows remain useful for dimensions, but these condom product links are the verified current Condomania paths.

    Product links go to Condomania. Use coupon code CONDOMMONOLOGUES where applicable.

    Need a fit path before buying? Use the condom sizing guide to translate girth into width, check the SKYN and LifeStyles size chart for mainstream non-latex widths, compare broader material options in best non-latex condoms by size and fit, scan the broader best latex-free condoms guide, check standard latex-free and latex sizing against the Durex condom size guide, compare Trojan options in the Trojan and Magnum size chart, and read Are SKYN Condoms Good? before choosing a SKYN option.

    (Some external links may be affiliate links that earn us a small commission but this information is not sponsored by any company.  All opinions and advice are our own).

    Non-Latex Regular

    Trojan Supra BareSkin
    Made of polyurethane. Trojan’s only non-latex male condom.
    Classic straignt shape
    Base width: 2.1″/53mm
    Length: 7.9″ /200mm

    LifeStyles Original SKYN and LifeStyles Skyn Extra Lubricated
    Polyisoprene. Praised as the first to make the market- the rest followed.
    Base width: 2.1″/53mm
    Length: 7.5″/190mm

    Non-Latex Large

    LifeStyles’ SKYN Elite Large

    This is the first ever LARGE polyisoprene condom.
    It’s wider than most large condoms but not quite as long.  Ideal for thicker than average men.
    Base width: 2.2″/56mm
    Length: 7.8″/200mm

    Female Condoms

    FC2 Female Condom
    Latex free, made of nitrile synthetic rubber. Here is FC2 official site.
    As of now, there is still a one-size-fits-all approach to female condoms.
    Opening width: 3.0″ / 76mm
    Length: 7.2″/ 185mm

    Non-latex Sex Dams

    Hot Dams!
    Made of polyurethane. These are the only non-latex we could find.  Do you know of other options (besides saran plastic wrap!).
    No flavor added.  Standard size.
    6″ X 8″/152mm X 203mm

    Dams and condoms are extra special when lubricant is involved.  Don’t forget to use this essential item.

    Confused about what condom width fits your penis girth? Simply divide you penis girth by 2.25 (penis girth/2.25 = condom width). Read how we got this formula.

    If you think we’ve missed a condom (or dam) or have questions please comment below. Follow us on Twitter – Facebook – G+ for updates.

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  • Flavored Non-Latex Condoms

    Flavored Non-Latex Condoms

    Do they exist? We’ve been asked this question a few times. It’s hard to believe that the condom market would overlook this specific and important need. Unfortunately, after deep digging we did not uncover a non-latex flavored condom or dam. So what’s the orally-minded to do? 

    lips lubes**If you are surprised to hear that people do use protective barriers for oral sex than you need to read our post on why and how to protect yourself. Other trusted resources include Scarleteen and The Body. (Some external links are affiliates).

    Skip to the end for more about flavored non-latex sex dams. No flavored non-latex male condoms were found. We searched over 20 condom retail sites, flipped through hundreds of flavored options paraben-free, sugar-free, vegan, organic fruit extracts but it seems non-latex also equals non-flavor.  And ditch your resolve to find a dry, non-lubricated, non-latex barrier because those don’t exist either! (see plastic wrap below).

    In general, the popular assumption must be that polyisoprene and polyurethane condoms aren’t manufactured with that latexy aftertaste and smell. So what’s the point of flavoring them?  Personally, I have never smelled or tasted anything from standard lubricated polyisoprene condoms (so far I’ve only tried original Lifestyles Skyn). Others have stated that polyurethane also has no-to-little scent and taste. But everyone is different. If you do not like the scent and taste of non-latex we have two important suggestions for you.

    Left with these non-latex limitation, here are two options (comment below if you have more ideas).

    1) Add your own flavored lube.

    Flavored lubricants come in all sorts of variety. Rain offers 8 flavored single packs. From Undercovercondoms.com
    Flavored lubricants come in all sorts of variety. Rain offers 8 flavored single packs. From Undercovercondoms.com

    Think of non-latex as a clean plate that you can fill up with your personal buffet of hundreds of flavors and sensations. Literally hundreds. Flavored lubes are designed for oral sex.  Yes, they are safe to ingest (you only need a drop or two). Plus, lube does more than just mask condom tastes nice. It greatly heightens sensation, body heat transfer and can be lots of fun. Experiment! However, you may be allergic to an ingredient such as glycerin or silicon, so check the content. Also, make sure your lube is compatible with polyisoprene or polyurethane barriers.

    Here are some recommended flavored lubes from some of our Condom Monologuers. The Sexpert’s personal favorite is K-Y’s Your’s & Mine Kissables, strawberry & chocolate flavor. She also recommends any flavor of the Masque flavored gel strips that you put on your tongue before going down. Other condom monologuers love watermelon, sour apple and very berry. Writer Ams Sweiger also praises flavorless lubes- Ideally water-based, like Astoglide, because silicon can leave a funky aftertaste.

    2) Plastic Wrap

    Image from artindeepkoma, Flickr
    Image from artindeepkoma, Flickr

    (But not the microwaveable kind! That has holes which STIs and viruses can pass through). Plastic wrap comes lube-free but is compatible with all types of lubricant (oil, silicon and water-based), and it’s the least expensive of prophylactics. You can also easily cut it to the exact size and shape needed. This is a good solution for latex sensitive people who like lubricants and want safer cunnilingus (vulva oral sex; “eating out”) and analigus (anal oral sex; “rimming”). However, plastic wrap is not really recommended for effective protection when giving head (fellatio; “blow job”). Also keep in mind that plastic wrap tears more easily than other non-latex options, so be a bit more tender.

    The one flavored non-latex is…

    Well, vulvas and buttholes- it’s the Hot Dam! Banana is it’s flavor. However, it looks as though the manufacturer has stopped producing this version as we can’t confirm any retail site with them currently in stock! In other words, Hot Dams are available, but not necessarily with flavor.

    Help us update this post

    Have you come across any non-latex flavored barriers?  Do you have a favorite lubricant?  Post a comment or ask question below.

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  • SKYN Original Polyisoprene Condom Review

    SKYN Original Polyisoprene Condom Review

     

    Image from UndercoverCondoms.com
    Image from UndercoverCondoms.com

    SKYN Originals have been around a while now and seeing as I am involved in a condom blog I thought it was about time I actually tried the non-latex offering.  In fact, this is the first condom ever made from polyisoprene.

    I knew before I tried SKYN that they had advertised as the first and that this material was not latex rubber. However, I did have to ask the question What the f**k is polyisoprene? As it turns out, it is pretty much just rubber. It has very similar chemical structure, however, it’s synthetic and derives from petroleum rather than tress. It’s close enough that it’s sometimes referred to as ‘synthetic natural rubber’.

    Although very similar in structure to latex it’s a good alternative for those who have a latex allergy or if the smell and taste of latex repels you. However, it’s not so good if you are trying to ween off petroleum dependency.

    SKYN is part of the Lifestyle’s range in the USA and it can be found licensed for sale pretty much across the world including other brands such as Mates in the UK.

    Trying a new condom can be oddly nerve racking. A bad condom can break the moment which (of course) is much less of a problem than it actually breaking but still not the outcome one wants! Non-latex still hasn’t yet taken the mainstream market yet…perhaps because they are more expensive or because latex allergy is not very prominent. But one does not need allergies to enjoy these johnnies.

    Here’s My Review

    So unwrapping the SKYN, my partner and I were not totally sure what to expect.

    The moment was pretty much anti-climatic. Tearing open the wrapper, like Charlie looking for the golden ticket, we found simply a condom- a humble, transparent, normal looking rubbery lubricated condom. The condom rolled on very well. No drama. No talking points!

    From other reviews I’ve come across, I expected it to feel and sound like sandwich bag, but no. The condom felt great! If no one told me, I wouldn’t have been able to ousted it out as a latex imposter. As much as I could tell it felt the same as a perfectly fitting latex condom. If comparisons had to be drawn I would say it felt like regular Lifestyles Ultra Thin or Durex Love.

    Size wise it fit me great. The SKYN original is an average sized condom with a base width of 2.08”/53mm and a length: 7.5”/190mm. There is an XL and extra-lubricated version in the range so it may be worth picking up the multipack to get an idea of what works with you the best. In fact, this is the only non-latex XL condom available on the market!

    SKYN say that their condom is softer and more flexible than regular latex. While I can’t for sure say that is the case, I can say after a few uses I have experienced no comfort problems, neither has my partner. They roll on easily, fit well and don’t inhibit feeling during sex. Perfectly satisfied.

    I would say they are well worth a try!

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